19 May 2011
Good morning to the fellas
How about I just heard the "backwardest" statements that made me stop and think then realize that there may be some truth to it.
Ok so im listening to this guy talk about this young lady that we know only by face. Well this guy is sort of fascinated better yet infatuated with this young lady to the point he gets the dookie face every time he sees her. You know me my focus is on the fact that she sounds like Michel’le in da mouth and keep it movin. So im like “Yo Step to Son” brotha said “Naaaa she prob married with kids and what not” ok ok he has respects the covenant so he’s a righteous brotha. So im like “Na she’s not” which is true due to me scheming on a pyramid in the past, so then this brotha said, and this is where it gets weird.
“Word she’s not, yeah but she prob crazy then.” Im thinking “HuH” so he says “yeah she’s prob crazy, they usually are if they single, look good and don’t have a man, that tells me something is wrong with them” Now at this point im like ok your buggin then I thought about it for a sec, and realized this is not the first time im hearing this.
When did we get to a point where single men view single women as unattainable and would much rather go after the married ones b/c it has been somehow placed in our thinking that those are the ones that are emotionally stable enough for me to try and get for my own? (and of course im using ‘we’, ‘our’ and ‘my’ in the general sense)
The enemy is really subtle in his attacks and the end results are often devastating. I would almost bet to say that this same thinking is the result of the widespread mancakism, but peep how slow it developed, until recently, this thinking has become a deterrent for finding the one HE has created for you to be fruitful and multiply with.
wow
How about I just heard the "backwardest" statements that made me stop and think then realize that there may be some truth to it.
Ok so im listening to this guy talk about this young lady that we know only by face. Well this guy is sort of fascinated better yet infatuated with this young lady to the point he gets the dookie face every time he sees her. You know me my focus is on the fact that she sounds like Michel’le in da mouth and keep it movin. So im like “Yo Step to Son” brotha said “Naaaa she prob married with kids and what not” ok ok he has respects the covenant so he’s a righteous brotha. So im like “Na she’s not” which is true due to me scheming on a pyramid in the past, so then this brotha said, and this is where it gets weird.
“Word she’s not, yeah but she prob crazy then.” Im thinking “HuH” so he says “yeah she’s prob crazy, they usually are if they single, look good and don’t have a man, that tells me something is wrong with them” Now at this point im like ok your buggin then I thought about it for a sec, and realized this is not the first time im hearing this.
When did we get to a point where single men view single women as unattainable and would much rather go after the married ones b/c it has been somehow placed in our thinking that those are the ones that are emotionally stable enough for me to try and get for my own? (and of course im using ‘we’, ‘our’ and ‘my’ in the general sense)
The enemy is really subtle in his attacks and the end results are often devastating. I would almost bet to say that this same thinking is the result of the widespread mancakism, but peep how slow it developed, until recently, this thinking has become a deterrent for finding the one HE has created for you to be fruitful and multiply with.
wow
yoooooooo the rationality that we've developed over the last few decades is staggering, its better to go after someone in a relationship than to build one of your own. And i agree with the writer when he says along with mancakism this has become a sublte attack on our sensibilities that have worn away at us over time until now we've convinced ourselves that right is wrong and wrong is right jeeesh!
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